Okay I won't be surprized if this gets locked up, due to the people we have in this community, but I figure this post is a lot more structured than the "lets talk about girls" post, which will cause slightly less chaos. Moderators, give this post a chance, and I'll understand if it gets locked up in a weeks time. Anyway, I'm not having sex till marriage, because I believe that it is a sexual investment, which will get me more sex than I've sacrificed. Do you agree with my philosophy, or do you think that this sexual investment is my dumbest idea since click cash?
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Rhys, whats pathetic is that you go completly insane and start acting like a pompus jerk over a little post on the internet, seriously your so immature. The fact that some people do not wish to have sex untill marrige is to be respected, as it is morraly the right thing to do. Anyway, everybody has a right to there opinion, and nobody awnsers to the likes of you, thats for sure.
Yes I do think its a dumb post, but live and let live.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams...
What do you mean 'its morraly the right thing to do'??
Are you saying that the apes having sex in the trees are immoral beings cos they didnt go on a 'lets get married to a complete stranger' gameshow??
And if apes are immoral beings, I dont think I want to go to a heaven that doesnt allow monkeys.
Im bloody sick of people telling other people what to do. If someone wants advise on their sex lives, than theyve already made the mistake of asking the internet. We dont know eachother outside the world of kliking, and thats the way Id like to keep it with most of you.
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'oh yeah? he's thrown a kettle over a pub, what have you done?'
The progression of Jon Chambers 'loss of credibility' has been very entertaining. First he went into a nose dive and after all those "I once saw a girl, it made me spray my shorts" posts, I honestly thought he had crashed and burned. Now his mangled plane appears to be remaking "Journey to the Centre of the Earth".
People have their beliefs about sex! I accept that. I also accept that any normal person couldn't give a rodents rear end about your beliefs.
Sexual Investment?!?! That's a great idea. I know! Next time I feel like pleasuring myself, I'll invest it at an interest rate of 5.99% PA, so in about 10 years time... I'LL HAVE AN EXTRA WANK AT MY DISPOSAL!!!
Yes, Admins, let this post live. Let this LOL generating thread make us giggle at Jon Chambers' expense long into the future.
Show me the power child,
I'd like to say,
That I'm down on my knees today,
Gives me the butterflies,
Gives me away,
'Til I'm up on my feet again,
I'm feeling outshined.
Rhys, I have only one objection to your massive rant. The rest is fair game. The objection is to:
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"due to the people we have in this community"
What, us 'non-believers'?
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No, not the non-believers. I'm all for the non-believers. You can not believe as much as you feel necicary. I was refering to people who post things irrelevent to the topic at hand. Like Hamish M.
It's true JD's comments were a little off topic, but it was all in good taste, so I have no problem with it.
Hey Ashman, a nice interpretation of what I said about sexual investment. It was great for a laugh. I know it's stating the obvious, but I just want it on the record that that's not what I meant. This investment covers sex only, and you can invest all or nothing. Any inbetweens will lose both ways.
Oh Ashman, you're funny again. Is this side B of the broken record?
Okay, the rest of this reply goes to rhys. First of all, 7 girls means nothing. That's like saying, I had 7 slices of cake. Were they big slices? Did they taste nice? Did they feel good in your mouth? How much did each slice cost you? Secondly, that ice breaker comment, eh, well, you did your homework on me, congrats. Yeah, I am aware that most girls, that wouldn't work for, but there are a few out there.
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Like I said, everybody has there own opinions, Im not trying to tell anyone what to do at all. I for one will be happy to have sex when im married, it makes it special, the whole world is revolved around sex its sickening, theres more to life you know. I have had many chances to induldge, and these girls you look twice at and up and down , but if you have sex then its like.. well now what..? It can also causes problems too, like STD and accedental pregnecies.
Anyway, im done talking about this, what I tried to say was dont put people down for wanting to hold out, dont let peer pressure make you do things you dont want to do, like smoking. If you dont want to, dont do it.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams...
I appreciate your courage to get up, ask taboo, even maybe more adult questions of a site clearly dominated by teens, and the fact that you know this will enividably get spammed to shithouse, you will get given loads of shit, and the thread will be locked by an admin of some description...
Anyway...on topic here...i'd like to maybe have some input...if I may, seeming though I have a fair bit to say on this topic...*clears throat*...NO PUN INTENDED YOU SICKFUCKS...
...onward...First of all, i'm not a relgious man at all. Infact, I go by the moto that relgion causes more problems than it solves, and I stick by that till the day I die from a crushed pelvis and my skeleton rots away, cause that what happens after you die ladies and gentlemen, it's a well documented fact...but i'm not here to bad mouth religion, I could, it's great fun, but i'm hear to bad mouth maybe something that certain religion supports...or doesn't support so it seems...anyway
I've been fortunate (or unfortunate it may seem) enough to experience this thing we know as premarital (sp?) sex. I don't deny that, and if you think i'm lying, my friends have some horrible first hand experiences you may not wanna hear...cough. But yes, been there done that.
And I mean it seems like this ultimate goal thing that you strive you, especially after several intent viewings of American Pie. And I spose alot of teenage guys think...Yes, yes. I'm gonna get me a fine woman and i'm gonna go getta mahself laid...or something along those lines. And I mean good on ya. It gives a purpose and progress to you life, especially if you find yourself a lucky lady, form a relationship and slowly work your way up to a special thing like that. I mean that makes it special.
And what can I say. Physical expression of emotion is a beautiful thing. Sure...the porn industry makes it up to be really smutty and dirty and almost disgusting...but it's kinda ya own thing when you there in the moment. And I think that's an important part...which what brings me to my next tragic admission. The fact that the longest lasting relationship of my life so far has been based around casual sex more than anything else. It's saddening, horrible, gruesome to admit such a thing, because in there I believe me and my partner could have had something. Cause, i've gotta say, sex is just not the same thing if there's not some kind of bond between you that's not just physical.
I mean wowy. You might hook up with some hot slut one day on say, oh I dunno, a cruise of Sydney harbour cough...and like get with her in like 5 minutes cause she's horny as all fuck and do the bad deed in a seedy toilet where there's some bloke spewing in one of the urinals. Sure, it's fun at the time, and you might get her phone number at the end, and the possiblity of more dirty spontaneous loving in horrid surroundings, but the fact remains there's not much actually keeping things together. Either of you can feel free to go off and have a go at someone else, and not feel guilty about the harbour cruise chick because you know she wouldn't think of you as anything but a fuck buddy.
What i'm trying to say here boys and girls that being this casual dood is not bad at the time, but the longer you do it the less meaning it has, and if you don't ultimately make some kind of actual emotional attachment to your partner, then purpose begins to fade, and it almost becomes this predictable cycle if you know what I mean. It's like same old same old, get it on, maybe it was better this time than it was last week, not that you really remember anyway. And that's what got to me eventually after a bit of unasked for, but important, consuling from my friends, is that what is the act of love to some, and should be a magical moment between two human beings, became this the addiction, this chore, this thing I just needed.
Pathetic as it were, i'd try to let go, but go crawling back for more like a junkie. I think a good line in a recent Offspring song say it well...Hit That
"Sex is a weapon
It's like a drug"
And I don't disagree with it. It's like "Here, have all the donuts in the world." And you really know you should stop eat them after a while cause you'll die some way or another, but you can't help yourself cause they're so tasty. Just a pure empty pleasureable addiction.
So I don't wish the pure sexual relationship on anyone. Unless you can actually have a bond of some sort that makes things more interesting, I wouldn't recommend it.
Although saying all of that crap about bad mouthing casual sex. It's not a bad thing, and all my past isn't gonna stop me from going out with girls and ultimately having a bit of action on the side. I wouldn't have it any other way.
In fact, that's why I'm not a fan of the no sex before marriage thing. Sure, good on ya for saving yourself for one woman for your whole life. That's being strong. But have you ever stopped to think about it?
I mean guys crave this 'sex' thing almost always throughout their teenage years, and even older, and it's not just about having IT...it's about having it as much as possible with different people. It's like choosing your favourite food...say you go wow pizza certainly looks nice...i decided i'm gonna have pizza...and you eat pizza for the rest of your life. As nice as it sounds you may just get bored or pizza, or not be fortunate enough to have pizza, you might have to eat cabbage for the rest of your life.
That's what I think about marriage. Why settle for just pizza for the rest of your life when you can have some hamburgers once in a while, maybe some chicken, or some big arsed steaks. And then maybe later on in life you'll make your decision and say, Well I remember steak was probably the best I ever had and i'm sticking to it.
That's my little metaphoric story for the day. I hope you read all of this, CAUSE I HAD TO WRITE THE BLOODY THING...
As for you boys who wanna keep yourselves until marriage, respect to ya...but I think your making the wrong choice!
MUGGUS
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Yeah, sex isn't the most important thing in the world, but it's damn close. I remember once I had this argument with someone, and there was this girl who agreed with me. She said, "There's more important things than sex anyway." The guys we were arguing against gave us both a funny look, and I just said, "She doesn't speek on behalf of ALL Christians when she says that."
Oh, and I don't smoke or drink. Here's my logic for that too:
If I open a box of biscuits, I HAVE to eat them all. It's not like, "I must eat them all", it's more like "Oh, that looks like a yummy biscuit, I'll just have one more." Then the whole pack is gone and I'm left feeling sick. If I'm like that WHAT THE HELL AM I GONNA DO WITH CIGARETTES? I'LL BE A FUCKING STEAM TRAIN!
Every Friday, I get all my friends together, tell them stuff I regret, make myself throw up, pick fights with people who can totally kick my ass and fall over whenever I get the chance. It my sound stupid, but it saves me a fortune on alcohol. (j/k)
To this day, I still don't understand the point of alcohol. I can fully understand getting other people drunk, but getting myself drunk? What's the point?
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Well, it's pretty easy to understand really. As a young kid the number of mysterious of the world around were everywhere. Every new day world bring forth a new adventure, and what could be consider the most mundane things to the older generation would be another chance of fun.
Now, of course, you grow older, and you grow out of these things. The world becomes maybe a bit dull, and needs maybe a bit of lighting up. Just so you can laugh, or think in an alternative light...enter mind alter subtances. The most well known and love of which you can purchase with easy quite cheaply is of course our friend alcohol.
I'm not saying that the world is always a dull place or whatever, and i'm not saying alcohol will cure it, especially being a depressent, but for me, and most others, alcohol is known as a social lubricant.
Basically what this means is it a situation involving people becomes more lively. I'll give you an example...
You have a party right. All of your mates are around. And I mean your trying to make it an adult type of party, you know lots of small talk, maybe throw a few snags and steaks on the barbie, put on some 70's & 80's style rock music. You know, you've typical boga...i mean normal house party.
Add some alcohol. A few beers maybe. Not only does it go well as great basting and non-stick coating for your snags and steak, it also gives you a reason to stand around with one in your hand and talk about sports, and just random things in your day/week/month that wouldn't seem nearly as interesting if it was delivered by a stone cold sober person to a stone cold sober crowd. Alcohol has this great way of loosening ones tongue so you'll actually say a bit more than you usually would and sometimes sparking much better conversation. It also lowers inhabitions, so temptations to do more daring and humourous things...like sing loudly to classic Queen tracks and dance like a dork.
The thing is, it makes people connect much better, gives them more to talk about, and pretty much livelies up social situtations.
In moderation, it's a great drug. Good beer, good buddies, good times is what I say. Maybe you'll understand when your older...maybe
MUGGUS
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I have no problem with the topic of the post - it's only if it gets flooded with moronic posts like those at the start (which I have removed) that it will be locked. It seems that some people are capable of mature discussion here...
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, but if you have sex then its like.. well now what..? It can also causes problems too, like STD and accedental pregnecies.
